week 190 / week 62

Back to a normal sort of week. Church at our regular church, a return to Eveleigh Markets for a quick visit, and the obligatory trips to the park.

We also tried Huff out with an iPhone game. She really liked it.

huff meets iphone

Huff is liking parks a little more now that she’s stable enough to sit on a swing, and almost okay to go down a slide. Much of the time she’s off on the sidelines looking dotingly across the park at her brother.

huff looking off into space

A rare trip to a toy store saw us meet the duracell bunny, who was handing out balloons. Puff was okay to meet the bunny, having experienced such things before. Huff wasn’t even remotely sure, but overcame her fear to have a balloon.

huff meets the duracell bunny

Huff is getting more confident in playing on the floor, or on a seat – she spent quite a while looking through this bag for the toys she wanted to play with.

huff looking for the perfect toy

On Sunday night after the cubby house was dropped off (more about this later), Aunty C and Uncle J called in with Pixel. Huff was a even motivated enough to try crawling forward.

puff and huff trying to meet pixel

Saturday afternoon amidst the playing in the park and errands we called into Grind. Puff still seems to like it there quite a lot.

puff back at grind

We’ve started teaching Puff how to play Uno, but his first love remains Trouble. Here he is re-reading the rules.

puff reading the rules of trouble

Puff and Huff get along quite well most of the time, but one car trip this week saw Puff hand all the available toys to her at once.

huff buried under some toys

Huff is getting better at supporting herself on her feet – if you prop her up suitably, or help her balance, then she will take a few steps, and look very pleased with herself.

 

week 189 / week 61

Big week. Huff’s first trip to the Easter Show, Puff’s second trip. Huff still hasn’t worked out how to move forward, but she’s giving it more of a try than in previous weeks. We’re getting to that time of life where it’s going to be necessary to keep her restrained rather than sitting safely in the middle of, say, a bed.

huff in a chair

She’s getting more interested in playgrounds. In general, the swing is her favourite, but she’s not terrified of a slide, as long as a grown-up is close by, making sure she’s sitting up.

huff on a slide

We all had a great time at the show – the baby dragons are getting big enough to start posing in these odd photo stands.

huff and puff
Huff’s favourite thing at the moment is being on a swing. We’ve found the one swing that they can both swing together: – Huff was on the swing, and Puff ran up and asked to share the swing. It was a great moment.
huff and puff share a swing

Here are Dad and Puff on the way to the Easter show. You can see the enthusiasm and anticipation as we ride along in the bus. Going to the show on the first day was a good idea – the public transport was nearly deserted.

on the way to the Easter show

At the end of the day, Huff and Puff compared their temporary tattoos.
mum with huff and puff

Puff’s favourite part of the day was the smoothie workshop: we missed the first one, and waited around to participate in the second.

puff - smoothie chef

Probably second favourite was the farmyard nursery. It was pretty crowded, but we had fun taking pictures and feeding and patting animals.

puff feeding the animals

In the farming section, Puff had the opportunity to grind some oats into rolled oats, and then roll out some dough: Dad learned a little bit about farming, and where porridge comes from.

puff - expert chef

Here is a tired dad and Puff on their way home.
long day at the Easter show

One of the traditions for Dad and Puff is going together on the biggest slide we can find: this was a new record.

Puff and Huff have been having a great time with their Kindermusik harmonicas. Here’s a short video of them playing together.

week 188 / week 60

With a party, a trip to Wollongong and another father-son pizza breakfast, it’s been another big week.

For future reference, this is what Huff does when she wants something.

 

It’s pretty clear that Huff’s ability to understand what’s being said to her exceeds her ability to express herself – she can nod her head ‘yes’ and bobble her head ‘no’ in answer to questions, but hasn’t worked out how to point to what she wants accurately. Here she is bouncing around on a piece of playground equipment.

 

Huff has her mum’s smile: it lights up her whole face, and sometimes Dad is fortunate enough to be given one of these giant grins. huff pleased to see Dad

A trip to the other side of Sydney for a birthday party saw a shy Huff sitting with Mum and Dad for the first little while before she found her confidence to play with some toys on the floor. She had a great time. huff enjoying a friend's birthday party

Mum, Huff and Puff came to Dad’s work this week for a coffee. There were no babycinos on the menu, so Puff had a piccolo hot chocolate instead. It’s great to watch his confidence with cups and drinking come through – there was a time when we’d be really anxious about giving him a glass, but he’s pretty stable now. puff with a mini hot chocolate

Saturday morning saw Puff and Dad walk up to the local shops for a breakfast pizza. It was good as ever to spend some time with him one-on-one. Dad managed, for the most part, to avoid the temptation to check his smartphone while he was out, but did take this photo. puff and his pizza

Compared to a trip to this playground around a year ago, his confidence at climbing has come along in leaps and bounds. expert climber The real success this week, though, was seeing him climb up toward the top of this spider-web: puff the expert climber

Puff is a big fan of the Guide Dog calendar in last week’s free show bag, and also of the dog mask.who is this masked man?

Tired from the tough work of being at a party, Puff enjoyed a quiet moment eating a cupcake.it's hard work eating cupcakes

Dad and Puff worked on a little craft project this week – a milk bottle converted into a pig. While we were making it, Puff coined the word “Pigglesome” to denote something that looks like a pig (and is awesome).pigglesome

We haven’t worked out what we’re going to do to explain the Easter Bunny to him – it’s not likely to be part of his annual methodology, but when a person dressed as a bunny is in a shopping centre offering your mum chocolate, it’s tough to turn down.imaginary friend

See you next week!

week 187 / week 59

We managed to fit a few different things in this week. There was a family day at Riverwood that we went to, a chance to catch up with friends on Friday night and on Sunday afternoon.

Huff is not at the point where she understands how to socialise, but she’s pretty happy when people bring her toys to play with.

huff playing with toys at a friend's house

Here’s Huff looking elegant in her sunhat and sunglasses, snacking on a dried apricot.

huff snacking on a dried apricot in a sun hat

She’s getting more interested in moving around, but not all the time. We still have opportunity for the occasional, carefully staged photo.

huff exploring the chairs

At a friend’s house on Friday night, Puff had a chance to learn how to use a toy tool bench – he was told it needed goggles to use toy power tools, and he obligingly wore them.

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At the Riverwood family day there was a giant Guide Dog, and Guide Dog show bag – complete with mask.

the legend of the dog-faced puff

Dad and Puff went on all the free rides, including the giant slide.

Mum, Puff and Huff went to IKEA a couple of times this week, some of the time for food, where Puff had a great time.

puff happy at ikea

Puff is definitely growing up – he had his first go at the giant ball pit at IKEA smaland this week.

Huff is spending more time trying to vocalise – she’s been trying to say Puff’s name, something that sounds like “done”, something that sounds like “up”, and she’ll cheerfully wave and gesture at the things she wants. She’s had a couple of nights this week with 11 hours of sleep, and other nights where she’s been up at 5am for an extra sleep. She’s fairly proficient with a spoon, though only for soft foods like yoghurt. She is very keen to eat whatever the people around her are eating, to the exclusion of any food that we might have given her.

week 186 / week 58

Another week, another series of photos. Huff is still teething and her sleep is all over the place.

She’s doing better with a spoon (though she does get bored halfway through a meal, with messy results).

huff can, in fact, use a spoon

We opened one of her birthday presents this week: an activity chair. She loves that it makes noises, and has things to play with, and will happily sit there until her legs start to bounce around (her involuntary dancing to the music) and she gets worried that she might fall off the chair. Still no big progress on the moving around front, though she’s getting more confident with crawling backwards.

huff on her new chair

This one was staged (Mum is just out of frame on the left), but gives a sense of how small she is, even as much as we’ve seen her grow already.

huff in the carpark

We had a trip to the zoo this week, and sized up both kids against the penguins. She’s bigger than a Little Penguin, but not by much!

huff on the penguin scale

Puff is almost at emperor penguin level.

puff on the penguin scale

Puff forgot – at first – to ask about borrowing Mum’s glasses: he found wearing them very funny.

puff with sunglasses

At the zoo, he asked if he could climb up on the statue (and then if Dad could climb up on the other one).

puff on an elephant

Puff also had a great time feeding the different animals at the zoo.

puff feeding goats

Sunday included a trip to Cronulla. It was odd to see him walk around the same playground that had given him so many challenges a year or two ago, and effortlessly climb up the play equipment, slide down the slides. He’s growing up so fast.

puff on the slide

On Saturday night, we went to a family birthday party, which made for a late night for Puff. He spent the whole duration of the speeches sitting on Dad’s lap, saying “can we find a bed where I can lie down and sleep” and then, after the singing of happy birthday, changed his tune to “we should stay and have cake”.

 

week 185 / week 57

A few challenges this week: Mum had a few different solo adventures, so Dad had three days in a row of looking after the kids by himself. Dad has a much better understanding of the challenges that Mum faces in looking after the kids.

In unrelated news, here’s the aftermath of a too-tired Puff using the whiteboard marker that goes with his new write-and-erase book, but not on the book.

whiteboard marker meets puff's leg

Huff has been learning a lot at her Kindermusik classes: – surprisingly, she’s worked out how to play the harmonica – a little ahead of time.

She’s also been showing a dramatic level of interest in learning how to blow up a balloon. She has some of the elements of the technique figured out, but hasn’t quite figured it out yet.

Huff and Puff are getting better at playing together: here they both are on the swings.

Huff is very attached to her big brother – she will often point in his direction and make gripping motions with her hands.

huff pointing

At a trip to IKEA this week, Huff had a chance to try out some child-sized furniture, which she loved.

huff with an IKEA chair

At a separate trip to Costco, Huff and Puff were travelling along happily in the stroller when an unexpected friend came along with them for a while.

huff, puff and a tagalong

We don’t have a lot of documentation for it yet, but Huff is in the throes of getting 4 new teeth: two have come through (current total: 8), and two are almost done.

huff smiling

 

We made a trip to the new Grind at Cronulla. Puff had a great time with his babycino, and Huff (who was already in a bad mood) remained grumpy. Here’s the happy half of the situation.

puff at new grind

On day three of the Dad-minding, Dad taught Puff how to play boxes on the blackboard. He’s getting good at writing; not so good at keeping chalk off his hands. puff drawing boxes

 

 

week 184 / week 56

Another big week, with the Grandragon heading home after a long visit.

To celebrate Huff’s ongoing weight gain, we have been dressing her in an outfit that might be better suited to Halloween. She’s had an up-and-down routine of sleeping this week – mostly sleeping through the night, but occasionally waking up, giving Mum a couple of poor nights’ sleep.

mum with huff in her new pyjamas

Mum, Puff, Huff and the Grandragon went to Warragamba dam during the week to see the raised water levels – it was going to spill for the first time in 14 years, so it seemed a good piece of history for the kids to be a part of. It was pretty quiet at the Dam mid-week.

mum, huff and puff

We went back again on Sunday, and it was much busier: hundreds of people had come out for a look!

puff with dad

Saturday saw Puff and Dad make a trip to the library, with a special treat of pizza for lunch on the way home. Taking him to the library now that he can read is a different experience – he has higher expectations of what kind of books we borrow (though we haven’t read all of them – he seems to have forgotten about the trip).

puff at the library

Puff has moved on from staying quiet through playing with sticker books to playing with cards. He managed to make all the way through the church congregational meeting without making an unhappy sound.

puff playing with giant cards

 

week 183 / week 55

Huff is starting to get used to having the Grandragon and Bandit around to play with. She’s much more animated, she’s trying harder to crawl around (though only succeeded in moving backwards so far) and she’s saying a few words. She even manages to stretch her hands out and a gripping motion as if to say “give me”, and she’s not shy about asking for anything interesting that the people around her might be having.

Saturday was a trip to a play centre to play with D,N,C and I, where we played on all four storeys of the play equipment for a long while. Dad was very proud of Puff’s efforts at climbing.

puff adventuring at the play centre

Sunday was an adventure for Dad and Puff on the way to church. Instead of our usual driving trip, we went by train, and even had paddle pops on the way there.

puff waiting for a train

We all went to Cronulla after church, and Puff wanted to walk on the beach, so Dad and Puff spent some time looking for shells.

dad with puff

Playing with sand is messy, but it’s a fast-track back to childhood. So many grains of sand.

puff on the beach

On Monday, Puff came into the city with Mum and Huff for a coffee – there was a lot of smiling.

puff with mum

Puff is increasingly wanting to read his own bedtime stories now, though if you can find a long enough story, he’ll grudgingly accept, but it seems like the tide is already turning. It won’t be long before Dad is reading bedtime stories to Huff.

week 182 / week 54

Another week has flown past. Not a huge number of photos to choose from, as it was largely a quiet week. Mum had a trip out on Monday night, giving Dad his first chance trying to settle Huff without Mum’s help (long overdue, perhaps, but she has tended to have her night sleep after a feed) and it worked a treat. She stayed down for the rest of the night, and was even in a good mood the next day.

huff grinning with mum

Huff and Puff came into Dad’s work for a visit. Huff was happy to sit in the stroller, for the most part.

puff and huff

It took some easing into it, but Huff had a great time playing in the ball pit at a friend’s 2nd birthday party.

huff in a ball pit

Puff has been having an up and down week. For the most part he’s been in a good mood, but he’s had some challenging moments. It’s a balancing act to go between having fun with your son to disciplining him.

puff at dad's work

Sunday morning Puff and Dad went out for our inaugural “toast picnic”. We counted lots of numbers, walked on wet grass, and all for free.

puff on a toast picnic

One last note for the week: Puff’s first time sitting at a birthday party table, with an array of party food. Puff was really well behaved with the food, but didn’t enjoy the singing of “Happy Birthday” that happened four times that day.

puff at a party

We also went to dinner for someone else’s birthday, but there were (sadly) no photos from that event. Happy Birthday!

week 181 / week 53

This week has been one where both kids have enjoyed having Grandragon (and her dog Bandit) around. We’re still trying to work out ways to get Huff more mobile, and used to using her feet. here she is on Puff’s old car.

huff driving

She’s been loving a number of her birthday / baptism presents, including this hand-made abacus.

huff with abacus

Her stubbornness continues unabated. She decided that for a stroller ride up to the shops (with her brother, out of sight, on the other side of the stroller) she needed to take the pink balloon with her. Dad managed to hang onto the balloon for the whole trip there and back again, and only had to pick it up half-a-dozen times. In a way, it’s impressive to watch her hold onto something that’s so much larger than her hands.

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Puff is loving the time he gets to spend with Bandit, especially when he gets to take him on a walk. here they are returning from a walk to the letterbox and back.

puff and bandit

On Friday night, on a visit to his aunt-and-uncle’s house, he had the chance to try on Grandragon’s glasses. He couldn’t see much through them, but found wearing them to be hilarious.

puff with grandragon's glasses

Saturday morning was some father-son-dog time at the local Lebanese Pizza shop: Puff didn’t manage to eat all that much pizza, but it was a lot of fun talking to him.

puff with pizza

He started telling me about how God made everything, and then – when I was telling him about my wedding ring, and how it related to the promise that I’d made to love Mummy forever. He said “Yes, that’s what [our minister] Ian was talking about” – he was indeed talking about that in the previous week’s sermon. Encouraging that he’s taking these things in.

We spent most of Saturday catching up with friends at a play centre: great to see them again after many years: I think their girls had as much fun playing as Puff did.

We’re still struggling with how much screen time Puff should have – he’s had much less time on the iPhone this week, and it seems to have improved his ability to interact with the world a little better.